So long story short she's really bossy and controlling. Yesterday I went to the beach with her and she kept telling me to park on the street because it'd be cheaper, but there was obviously NO PARKING at all because it was Saturday and the beach was hella crowded. She kept insisting but I ignored her. Then we parked by a particular beach tower where a big bonfire was suppose to be but then I was like "There are no kids here, where is the bonfire, isn't it at this tower?!" She was like "oh it's over to the right more" and i'm like wtf you knew the location was changed and you didn't tell me, now we have to walk even further! Then when we finally got to the bonfire area there were a bunch of people and she complained because she didn't want to be near alot of people but there was no where else to put our towels or else we'd be way isolated from the group. After that she said she had to go back to my car to get her phone and then to the restroom to change to her bathing suit. Apparently there was a long line for the restroom and it took a half hour! I was pissed. After we swam I was drying off w/ my towel and she's like "You're not gonna let me use it?" I was like "Where is yours?" SHe said she forgot it so I let her use mine. Then later that night we went to eat and she complained about the tomatoes on her burger IN FRONT of the cashier and also I asked her what animal style fries are because I heard someone ordering it and I didn't know. She's like "Are you serious? Obviously it's a secret sauce they put on the fries". Do you think she's being rude or am I overreacting?What do I do about my "friend"?
Omg yes that must have been horrible for you! I dont think I could have controlled myself and I probably would have had an accidental outburst! If I were you, I would seriously talk to her about it, or I wouldn't be able to hang out with her anymore. She may be a good friend, but she sounds hella annoying, sorry.
Talk to her about it, and if that doesnt work and you can't take it anymore, then don't be her friend; but that's ONLY if you cant take it anymore. I don't think I could, haha.What do I do about my "friend"?
talk to her and if shes still being a b*tch tell her off, leave, and don't be her friend anymore.What do I do about my "friend"?
dump her
Well, you aren't overreacting. That would be sorta annoying but maybe it was just one of those days, yaknow? I mean, can you honestly say you haven't had a day where you were just pissed at everything and maybe, unknowingly made things crap for others? If she is always like this then that is the way she is but you never specified. Just be patient and calm and let her think she is in control but really you are controlling, example:
"Mandy, we should park on the street its cheaper"
"Doesn't look like a lot of parking there"
"But its cheaper"
"Hmmmm"
And go park somewhere else.
"Oh actually the bonfire is more to the right"
"Why didn't you tell me earlier?"
(puts her in a situation, right?)
Doing things like that will help you out!
G'luck!
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